Explore and discover your body's hidden secrets! Unlock new heights of intimate pleasure by seeking out the little things that get you going. Be like a great detective, uncover what makes both of you feel sexually alive so that together, y'all can reach sensational satisfaction.
2023-02-23 10:09:25 +0000 UTC View Post
Ready to feel the heat 🔥 in your bedroom? If you're having a hard time finding that connection, don't worry - there's always a resolution if you’re open and willing. Make some free-time to understand each other's love language! Sure, it can be irritating if they've been turning up the thermostat and you prefer breezy air conditioning... but how much more romantic would it be when their gestures make YOU melt instead of just making conversation go sour? Stop blaming each other for miscommunication and start learning meaningful ways to show physical affection. And who knows -- discovering one another’s desires may even bring about sexual intimacy too! Do you know what the love languages are ? Check out my mental health and wellness blog for more articles and you can also subscribe to my email list for my soon to be launched newsletter 👉🏻 RealElizaJayne.com
2023-02-22 10:12:29 +0000 UTC View Post
Wanna spice up your sex life ! Try something different with outercourse - exploring a variety of body pleasure that goes beyond traditional intercourse. Get creative and get steamy as you explore deep kissing, sensual touch, erotic massages or even bring in some toys for extra fun! And remember put your anxiety aside and just relax there are no real rules except the ones that you and your partner create 👌🏼
2023-02-21 10:30:47 +0000 UTC View Post
Use Your Senses 👀👂👃🫦 It's time to let go of performance-based sex expectations and get ready for a whole lot more pleasure! Fully immerse yourself in your own body sensations using all five senses - it'll help you release any worries about not knowing the right moves. With this approach, sexual exploration will be much more enjoyable than if you're solely focused on what outcome is expected from you.
2023-02-20 10:12:41 +0000 UTC View PostJust a little Sunday strip tease ... Fantasies & Desires If you like bondage, whips, oils, etc. then let your partner know that! Why keep it a secret? Bring your wildest desires and fantasies to life. It may inspire your partner to share theirs with you.
2023-02-19 10:03:31 +0000 UTC View Post
Safe Words Things can get a little wild in the bedroom, that's why it is important to discuss boundaries. Talk with your partner about what type of activities you’re comfortable. Choose a safe word, one unrelated to sex either of you can say to pause what’s happening. I know you saw “50 Shades of Grey,” stop playing! 👀
2023-02-18 10:03:36 +0000 UTC View Post
Why do some partners find it hard to be vulnerable in relationships? * Personality Types The differences in personality between the partners—also known as their temperament types—are one of many reasons why it appears difficult to be vulnerable in a relationship. Because you and your partner are distinct individuals, it is impossible for you to behave or approach situations in the same manner. Your partner may be an introvert who prefers to keep things to himself or herself, whereas you may be extroverted and may be quite expressive when it comes to your feelings and opinions. In addition, introverts sometimes find it difficult to express their feelings because they are unsure whether to trust you or not. After putting in so much mental effort to allow you into their space, they can't bear the thought of being betrayed by you. *Past Trauma Everyone has experienced trauma as a result of hurt or betrayal in the past at some point in their lives. When it comes to sharing basic information about yourself, your past experiences sometimes have a way of making you feel even more hesitant. because you think it's safer for you to keep people at a distance by not giving them basic information. Because it took you a while to recover from that awful experience, you also believe that your behavior is justified. Trauma may also cause you to be cautious and perhaps being cautious about putting your partner's trust in you. All of this is because you have been hurt and betrayed by people you used to trust. You are aware that your partner loves you, but you are unsure about letting go of your guard. *Imposter Syndrome When you struggle with imposter syndrome and can't stop feeling like you don't deserve a relationship, it's hard to be vulnerable in it. Because you are under the impression that your partner will find compelling reasons why they should not be with you and act accordingly if they discover your flaws or how imperfect you could be, you ensure that you do not let your guard down. *You are an over-thinker Overthinkers frequently tend to worry too much about the worst-case scenario that could arise from a situation. You think too much about what will happen in your relationship with your partner and it starts to affect how you talk to him or her. Because your focus is on the imaginative outcome you've put yourself through, you start walking on eggshells. Your fantasies may cause you to mentally prepare for betrayal, resulting in a more defensive attitude toward your partner; even if they are sincere. *Low self-esteem You try to act like someone else because you don't feel confident enough about who you are. Why? so that you can live up to your partner's expectations. In a situation like this, you can no longer be yourself. Because you are uncomfortable with who you really are, you don't see yourself as vulnerable in the relationship. *Society's influence Women are not expected to talk to their partners and should only exist to play dumb and dance to their partners' tunes, according to one of society's rules. Men have been taught by society to be strong and to avoid being vulnerable in a relationship because doing so would make them appear weak. Therefore, even if it is false, it is expected of them to present a solid image of themselves. Sadly even in 2023 that false influence still affects men and women from expressing themselves and being vulnerable.
2023-02-17 10:07:40 +0000 UTC View Post
Exclusivity Never make assumptions and always communicate. If you are able to lie down with another person, you should also be able to talk about whether or not you are exclusive. Make sure that everyone is on the same page, and only do what makes you feel at ease and is in your best interest. Don't let anyone coerce you into doing something you don't want to do.
2023-02-16 10:07:29 +0000 UTC View Post
Likes & Dislikes Of Your Body Everyone has insecurities and a lot of people unknowingly suffer from body dysmorphia. Trust your partner enough to be open about the likes and dislikes of your body and how you both can make it comfortable for one another in the bedroom.
2023-02-15 10:08:27 +0000 UTC View Post
When You Feel The Sexiest........ Tap into that alter-ago and let your sexiness show. If you feel the sexiest when music is playing in the background or with candles lit, verbalize that. Ask your partner when they feel the sexiest and try to satisfy each other’s needs.
2023-02-14 10:03:09 +0000 UTC View Post
A strong relationship is like a house of cards - if there's no intimacy, it'll collapse! Both physical and emotional connection are necessary to remain close with your partner. When intimacy between two people dwindles, loneliness arises and can cause resentment in the long run. To ensure overall happiness together over time, here are a few tips: 1. Try Something New You can feel more at ease and secure with a daily routine. You are aware of what to anticipate and what will transpire next. This can provide a sense of security in a relationship. However, experimenting with something novel and out of the ordinary can help rekindle the spark that keeps your relationship interesting. It can be revitalizing to try something new and step outside of your comfort zone. It really makes no difference what you do. You can learn something new together, try a new activity, or try something new in the bedroom that you haven't done before. When you do something new and different with your partner, the excitement can stimulate and connect you, making you feel closer to one another. 2. Touch More Staying connected to your partner requires physical contact. Touch is one of the senses that develops first and is necessary for healthy development. Physical affection has numerous health benefits as well. A decrease in 🩸 pressure and an increase in the bonding hormone oxytocin are among the health benefits. This happens to both the person touching and the person touching. Therefore, touch your partner with your hand. Hold hands when you go for a walk, stroke their leg when you sit together, and stay with them when you hug them. To become more intimate, spend more time touching each other. 3. Schedule Sex Make sex a priority again. Even though it may appear unromantic, if it isn't scheduled, life can get in the way of your sexual connection. After a long day, sometimes sleep is all you think about as you crawl into bed. When you aren't used to having sex, going without it is easier. However, as long as it is a regular part of your relationship, sexual intimacy will continue to be an important part of your relationship. Scheduled sex gives you a chance to build anticipation and engage the brain's largest erogenous zone. Before the sex date, you can describe what you want to do and how sexy you find your partner in text messages. It also gives you a chance to get ready for time alone when you can focus on one another. You are more likely to be open to more impulsive sexual encounters when you regularly plan sexual intimacy. 4. Show Appreciation It can go a long way toward making your partner feel appreciated to say "please" and "thank you." Doing the daily chores that make your home run more smoothly is easier when you know your partner appreciates you. Your praise should be sincere and specific. Give your partner sincere compliments. Describe the qualities you admire about them. Giving each other praise and small acts of kindness can make you both feel valued. Having the impression that your partner appreciates you strengthens your relationship. 5. Go on a date Take your partner out on a date away from home. Spend time with your partner in a different setting where you can concentrate on each other. Children, work, or household chores can all be sources of distraction when you are at home. Without the entirety of the external impedance, you can zero in on partaking in one another and having some good times together. Going out on dates together helps you focus on your relationship. More Tips coming soon ! If you have a topic or would like me to discuss something specific please let me know.
2023-02-13 10:11:38 +0000 UTC View Post
What is sex therapy ? If you are struggling with your sex life? ...Don't worry, there's no need to suffer alone. Sex therapy is here - the ultimate fix for all of your bedroom woes! It provides a safe and non-judgemental space where you can talk through issues related to physical, psychological or emotional factors that are potentially getting in the way of reaching sexual satisfaction. There are often homework tasks assigned (for fun!) along with new coping mechanisms designed specifically for you - before long it won’t just be fireworks going off between those sheets any more... feel free to shoot me a DM if you are looking for help or assistance in that area. I will be working on more video and content uploads on Sex, Intimacy, Relationships, as well and Mental Health & Wellness. Also be sure to check out my mental health and wellness blog for more tips. RealElizaJayne.com
2023-02-12 14:39:08 +0000 UTC View Post
#SelfieSunday What is your favorite Holiday? Wardrobe: Amazon Wishlist: Thank You to an anonymous supporter 😘
2023-02-12 12:06:15 +0000 UTC View Post
A huge part in experiencing pleasure is giving yourself permission to do so.
2023-02-10 02:00:33 +0000 UTC View Post
👣🍑🍈🍈 A little bit of every angle 📐 for your hump day What would you say is your biggest strength & weakness when it comes to intimacy?
2023-02-08 10:04:42 +0000 UTC View PostPerformance Anxiety: in most cases performance anxiety most of the time comes from our thoughts. We over think, depending on the circumstances we are in if it’s an unhealthy relationship that has had mental, emotional or physical abuse or we have experienced that in the past can alter our present thoughts and believe it or not affect our sexual performance. There can be so many facts that play into situations as well if you or your significant other uses or have in the past used alcohol, or drugs either recreationally or struggles with abuse. If you need support feel free to reach out for support and we can talk some of those things through. Do you have a difficult or hot topic you would like me to discuss or talk about from a therapist person ? Let me know comment below or shoot me a DM 👇🏼 [ Check out my new tip menu pinned to profile ]
2023-02-05 17:31:10 +0000 UTC View Post
Feel free to inbox me or email with any questions 📥 Bookings@ElizaJayne.com If you have suggestions on what to add feel free to send me those as well. I am still learning new ways to navigate the site. ❤️ Thank you for your support so far it means so much more than you could EVER imagine ❤️ The funds I raise allow me to continue to put money back into my projects, photoshoots, wardrobe and other expenses. Pay Pal: @RealElizaJayne Venmo: @RealElizaJayne Cash App: $RealElizaJayne Also please be sure when you tip me on this post 👇🏼 Inbox me so I know what you are requesting 🥰 if you tip me without telling me what it is for I will assume and accept it is a gift. Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2JD0AAWBL4H0B?ref_=wl_share
2023-02-05 17:06:10 +0000 UTC View Post
50 Shades of Jayne 💋 What's something you used to believe about relationships but no longer do?
2023-02-04 10:17:52 +0000 UTC View Post
Happy Friday 😘 Weekend Plans ?
2023-02-03 16:25:50 +0000 UTC View Post
Time to celebrate thong Thursday 🍑
2023-02-02 10:12:02 +0000 UTC View Post
Just throwing some 🍑 curves @ your Monday 🙃
2023-01-30 22:11:42 +0000 UTC View Post
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2023-01-26 11:28:43 +0000 UTC View Post
What makes you feel sexy or desired in a relationship? 🍑🍈🍈 *you can always shoot me a DM to chat as well if you are not comfortable commenting publicly on my questions. Check out my Amazon wishlist if you would like to help sponsor one of my shoots, I am always in need of new items to shoot in, I also have a mailing address if you’d like to surprise me with something not on my list 🥰
2023-01-22 14:02:21 +0000 UTC View PostLet’s talk about sex 😅 As a therapist I’ve found that sex can be a touchy subject [ pun intended ] 🤭 Sex can be a difficult subject to bring up. Joking around or talking with your friends about it often seems easier than talking with your partner. Here are a few tips to get the ball rolling. Have a subject it sensitive topic you want me to discuss? Send me a DM and I can chat about it 🗣 [ Spoil me with a tip to help me in producing more video content 💰 this will allow me to purchase additional equipment, misc items needed etc. ]
2023-01-20 10:10:22 +0000 UTC View PostIntimacy, Safety, Communication ✔️ Have a subject or sensitive topic you’d like me to discuss from a therapist POV? Comment below or Shoot me a message ☺️
2023-01-15 18:28:13 +0000 UTC View Post
SundayVibes 😌🍑 To become TOP fan for the month be sure to LIKE/COMMENT on as many posts as you can. I will be working on new surprise incentives 🥰👏🏻
2023-01-15 14:11:39 +0000 UTC View Post
