One night, my ex-girlfriend took me out on a date to a rope ..
Added 2020-10-10 23:43:38 +0000 UTCOne night, my ex-girlfriend took me out on a date to a rope bondage course taught by some international shibari master so she could practice her skills. It was such a sweet and gentle process. She lovingly checked in with me as she proceeded and she blindfolded me with a beautiful Hermes scarf. I think that sometimes people who aren't into kinky things see bondage and immediately think it's something violent or scary, but this was an incredibly loving and affirming experience. Afterwards, we went to Chili's (possibly the only Chili's in the LA area at that time) and drank margaritas, and were probably pretty insufferable, tbh, but it was lovely.
